Monday, May 7, 2012

Failed First FET :(

I'm so bummed. I'm mostly surprised. I really thought this would take.

I think the drugs must really mimic making your body think it's pregnant because I've been tired and VERY bloated. I really thought I was pregnant.

Oh, but our chances are so low (can't remember how low). At least an FET is less work than a fresh IVF, but still!!!

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I'll wait for my period, get on birth control again and hopefully go into another FET with the 1 frozen embryo we have left.

I'd appreciate some virtual hugs. I'm feeling pretty bummed out right now.

And thank goodness for counseling tomorrow morning at 8am...

9 comments:

  1. ((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

    I'm so so sorry. BFNs are just the worst, no matter how much prep you did (FET vs. fresh IVF). I'm really sorry.

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  2. ((((((((HUGS)))))))
    That sucks!!!!
    Sorry you have to go through that. I think you should make sure to indulge in some shopping, wine, travel and food. I hate how our bodies play tricks on us and let us believe they are doing things that they aren't. Glad to hear you still have an embaby left. Take care of yourself!

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  3. SO sorry for the BFN - this sucks! Sending you love and lots and lots of hugs!!!

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  4. I am so sorry about the fet. The drugs are awful at tricking you into thinking you are pregnant. Sending hope, love & faith for the next go around. (((hugs)))

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  5. So sorry to hear this...Sending you lots of HUGS.

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  7. So sorry. That is so frustrating. Aargh.

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  8. I'm so sorry. That is so frustrating. Aargh.

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  9. Feeling so low today, totally down - failed IVFs, FET, miscarriange - when will this end. There is no hope. Bx

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